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Adult Sex Toys For Couples

It's not unusual for couples to be cautious about using toys, given the social stigma associated with the idea. But if you have an open discussion and look for toys together Boyajian says that they can help build an intimacy and create excitement.

Adult sex toys can improve relationships, improve sexual satisfaction and can spice up foreplay and joint playing. But remember, consent is the most important thing.





1. Dual-Ended vibrators

Dual-ended vibrations give you the best of both worlds, whether you want a powerful, rumbling sensation or something gentle and subtle to increase your enjoyment. They are a great source of texture for inner stimulation and are easy to maneuver through the erogenous zones. They can also be used to penetrate. This dual-button vibration tool is made of silicone and features 10 different vibration patterns and speeds. It's submersible and is enjoyed in the bath, at the beach or while showering.

This sexy wand comes with the textured flexi neck head that is able to stretch to fit your partner’s curves. It can also go deep into clitoris area for an intense orgasm. The long thin oval tip is specifically designed for prostrate or anal stimulation, and is a length of about 4. The textured surface is enjoyable to touch and has the ability to produce powerful vibrating vibrations.

The sleek, discreet design will have you in awe. It's compact and fits easily in your pocket for quick pick-me-ups or to bring along on long road trips. The ribbed, body-safe silicon is a soft, velvety pleasure to hold in the hand. The rumble of this vibration is powerful enough to set your heart racing, but not so loud that you'll disturb your partner.

This dildo, unlike other sex toys, isn't overly cheesy. It's available in teal, black, pink, purple and gray (although some testers preferred gray because it didn't look like a 90s pornstar). The neck is rounded and flexible. head is fitted with a bulbous tail to stimulate the clitoral area and can be used for both anal or vaginal play. The silicone is smooth and silky and phthalate-free. It's also body-safe and is paired with an unbreakable glass core to create an array of textures that feel wonderful during penetration.

This rechargeable wand is a powerhouse of vibrations, offering up to 2 hours of playtime and featuring 10 unique vibration settings. It's made of ABS plastic and body-safe silicone. It is also waterproof and USB rechargeable. It's a bit smaller than the other options on this list and has a firm, solid body that isn't particularly bendy (which is perfect for clitoral stimulation or anal). It's got an internal battery, so you won't run out energy in the middle of your session.

2. Harnesses

Couples who love to explore in the bedroom should think about using an appropriate harness to add some spice to foreplay, anal games or even sex during intercourse. These types of harnesses include dildos, vibrators and hooks to attach them to the clitoris, vagina or the nipples. Some harnesses have a sexy style with soft, skin-friendly material while others are basic with a waistband made of elastic and nylon that is able to be worn around the butt for additional support.

Harnesses are particularly efficient for couples who love pegging (the method of slipping a dildo in the vagina to increase penetration and pleasure during sex) or any other type of consensual power exchange. The Lovehoney Strap-On Kit for Beginners is a great starting point for anyone who is new to. It comes with a reversible harness, two dildos in different sizes, and a bullet vibration to slide behind the dildo.

For those who like an easier, more hands-free experience this Luvli Ditto 2 wearable couples vibrator toy features direct clit as well as a g-spot stimulator that can also be placed inside the tongue to give you a taste of pleasure. Blindfolds and handcuffs are also available for a more kinky sexual experience or paddles that stimulate the nipple or the anal region.

Couples who experiment with adult toys for sexual pleasure end up feeling insecure or competitive, thinking that their partner is jealous of the new toy. Ashford suggests communicating with your partner in a way that is open and ask if they are willing to try sex accessories or toys that will enhance their enjoyment. Focus on the enjoyment that the accessories or toys bring to your relationship, rather than making it a competition or trying to outdo one another. Always use a product that is water-based with any sexually explicit toy or accessory. Also, make sure that you both feel comfortable with the sensation.

3. Strokers

A stroker might seem like an exclusive toy for solo masturbation however these toys are great for couples looking to take their oral games or clitoral stimulation up an notch. The Fun Factory Manta Vibrating Male Stroker is a great choice due to its ridges as well as multiple vibration patterns. It can be held with both hands for foreplay, or placed between a cock to allow for penetrative play. Strokers can be used to stimulate clitorises, frenulums, and nipples.

In addition to strokers, we're enjoying the zero flip hole toy by Fleshlight--which opens up like a book to allow for easy insertion and features a rippled interior for sensations that take you and your partner on a wild ride. You can also opt for an dildo that is designed for couples play, such as the Lovehoney Double-Ended Strap-On Dildo. It is also safe for the body and has two vibration modes. It creates a unique bond when playing with your partner, and both partners are happy.

Lovehoney's dual-ended vibrator ($70) is another great sexual toy that is utilized in the bedroom. It targets both the clit as well as the G-spot, bringing pleasure to a whole new level. Ring-shaped stimulators are also popular, with different levels of intensity and vibrating. The Wand-shaped Orgasma Massager by We-Vibe is another one of our favorites, since it's great for clitoral stimulation as well as the stimulation of nipples with your sweetie or close friend.

If you're worried about sex toys containing unsafe materials, Ashford recommends choosing rechargeable vibrators instead of battery-powered ones and prioritizing toys made of tough and non-porous material that are hygienic and safe to clean and sterilize. It's also important to talk to your partner prior to you introduce toys into your bedroom to ensure everyone is on the same on the same page.

Whatever wild or mild sexual romps in the bedroom are likely to be, top-tier toys for couples can make a significant differences in your sexual interactions and offer new ways of enjoying your time with each other. Just remember to keep the lines of communication open and make sure to make use of lube in order to enhance your experiences with each other--and a good cup of tea to enjoy later.

4. Thongs

Thongs are a great option for those looking to enhance their intimate moments. If you're seeking a flirty lacy thong or something more delicate made of cotton, there are many options available for everyone. Thongs are also an excellent option for swimming, since they're usually made from materials that dry quickly.

Thongs are available in a variety of styles that range from traditional thongs to C-strings, G-strings, and C-strings that have strings rears. They are available in a variety materials, such as silk, microfiber, cotton and more. They can be made for package enhancement either by a design that is intended to be used for this purpose or simply by being flexible and offering support. There are also designs that conform to genitals in the form shapes.